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Stay or Leave Evaluation
A clinical-grade screening to determine if your relationship is in a repairable crisis or structural failure.
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The TruAlign Framework
The Clean Decision Framework
Most people don't make relationship decisions; they drift until a crisis forces their hand. A "clean decision" is an active choice made from clarity, not fear.
What is a Clean Decision?
A clean decision has three components:
- Reality Acceptance: You are deciding based on who your partner is, not who you hope they will become.
- Ownership: You accept the consequences of the choice (staying or leaving) without blaming the other person for "forcing" you.
- Alignment: The decision matches your core values and long-term goals.
A "dirty" decision is one made to manipulate the other person ("I'll threaten to leave so they change") or to avoid pain ("I'll stay because I'm scared of being alone").
The 60% Rule
You will never be 100% sure. Waiting for certainty is a form of avoidance. You only need to be 60% sure to start moving in a direction. Action creates clarity; stagnation creates confusion.
Core Framework Links (Tier 1)
Get the clarity you need to decide:
- → Should I Stay or Leave? (Tier 1 Hub)The primary guide for making this choice.
- → Relationship 911 (Tier 1 Hub)Check for safety and stability first.